Kids take neighbor's mail and ‘return’ it to her after claiming they found it, then demand a reward for their act of kindness, neighbor refuses: ‘Please leave’

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    AITA for refusing to give a reward after two kids returned my opened mail with money inside?

    I'm 27F but I am pretty petite and could easily pass. for like a high schooler. So I am home alone at my parent's place dog sitting and I get back from walking
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    the dog and as soon as I close the door and lock it, I hear the ring cam doorbell go off and knocking and I can see through their Alexa that it's two kids. Probably
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    middle school aged. They have a bike and scooter. I did not see them when I came back from the walk, so I don't know where they were waiting or where they even came from.
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    They are just standing there and so I'm thinking that they are trying to sell something or another so I plan to just ignore them and focus on getting the dog
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    resettled. Except now the dog is barking like crazy because she senses someone by the door and I can hear the kids say "I just saw her go inside". They
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    then say "we found something of yours and it has money inside". So they are knocking like crazy and even start kicking
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    the door. I figure that I'll just speak to them through the ring bell so I say (without opening the door) "Hi. Just leave it in the mailbox. I cannot open the door right
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    now because my dog is not friendly". Which is, true, but also like, I have no idea if this is a scheme or if there's an adult in a car waiting for them, etc. My mind is going
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    into all sorts of scenarios that could end horribly for me. After them standing there for like five minutes, I can see through the cam that
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    they put it in the mailbox and walk slowly away on their bike/scooter. About two minutes later, one of the kids comes back and puts his hood on. Rings the
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    doorbell and I can see him put his hood on and I say "what's up?" through the ring cam. And he says "My friend wants a reward". And I say "thank you for bringing
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    back the mail but there is no reward, please leave". And the kid just stands there demanding a reward. So I say "I have your faces, if you try to threaten me, I will call
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    the cops". The kid then says "call the cops I don't care! I returned your money. If I ever find something for your house again, I'm not returning it". He then walks
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    away before giving me the finger. I'm not looking to get these kids into any sort of trouble or anything because I think
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    they were just being dumb fks and they couldn't have been older than like 14/15 but AITA for not giving a reward? What they returned ended up being an opened envelope (don't know how
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    they got it, if it was already ripped, or if they opened it) from my aunt that had a $20 bill in it (my aunt is old school like that).
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    I've had my fair share of finding misplaced items/wallets and I've never once demanded or even expected a reward. My friend wanted me to post
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    their faces on the NextDoor app and blast them but I don't know. So, AITA? ETA: because I see some comments about this: I didn't think the fact that he
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    put his hoodie on made me feel unsafe. I didn't feel unsafe about the boys themselves, more annoyance because it was stressing the dog out (although them standing
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    there for a while made me think someone might have been coercing them to stay there until someone answered the door, but that might just be my anxiety). I was also extremely stressed
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    about the reactive dog and that played a big factor into me not wanting to open the door when I could accomplish what needed to be said (a thank you and leaving in the mailbox is
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    fine) through the ring doorbell. I also felt kinda weirded out when one boy came back and not the other. I mentioned my age and size because you'd be
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    surprised at how people assume you are naive when you're a) young and b) a woman and c) know that you might be home alone.
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    armomo3 You don't get a "reward" for doing something that IS illegal. Chances are they saw there was money in it. I'd report them to their parents and let them know I didn't like their attitude or tone and
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    perhaps they should let them know opening mail is illegal. I'd also make certain there was only $20 in there. Maybe she sent you $30 and they were looking to double their take.
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    Dufiel Morningstar Does your ring camera pick up your mailbox, and does it record...because if you have evidence of them going into your mailbox, that's a federal offense. You are NTA
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    meetmypuka What are the chances that they "found" your mail in your mailbox?
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    Anxious_Leading 7158 NTA they opened your mail and were kicking the door? they want a reward for not stealing $20? yeah NO

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